Why is it so Important to Play With Your Child?

We come home tired at the end of the day, and our darling little snuggle bug wants to play.  What should we do?  Its so easy to just say: "No, mommy/dad is tired".   Fight this urge with all your might!  We should always try to say yes when our kids want to play with us.  Its hard, we know.  Especially, after a hard day of work, but the benefits and memories you will share with your children will be oh so worth it!!!  Here is a great article we found, explaining it all, found by us on Child Development Institute website blog: "Playing With Your Child While children do need time to play alone and with other children without adult intervention, research shows that playtime with parents is also important. Children crave time with parents. It makes them feel special. Parents are encouraged to find time to spend playing with their kids on a regular basis. This should include one to one with each child and group time with all of the adults and kids in the home. If you are a single parent or have an only child, occasionally invite family or friends over to play. In pretend play, let the child develop the theme. Get into their world. Let them go with it. Ask questions. Play along. Be silly along with them and have fun. Avoid over-stimulation. Know when it is time to stop. Also, when appropriate, parents can use stuffed animals or puppets to act out real-life situations that can teach problem solving or social skills. Let the puppet demonstrate the wrong way to handle a situation. Then, along with input from the child, act out a better way. Afterward, let the child do the same. More Possibilities: Play outdoors. Throw balls. Push kids on swings. Make mud pies. Go on a hike around the neighborhood. Take a nature walk in your backyard. Play games – card games – board games – silly and wacky kids games. Help them learn to take turns, how to win and how to loose. Praise them. Encourage them. Laugh with them. Get involved in a craft project together. Build a jigsaw puzzle as a family. Bake cookies. Paint a picture. Listen to music together. Sing along. Play rhythm instruments along with music. Get out the guitar or keyboard and make music. Read a book together. Ask questions. Ask them to change the story or make up a new one. Watch a movie together. Find out what they liked – how they felt. Discover the child’s interests. Comment on and discuss any bothersome content either words or actions. Play kid games like: Follow the Leader – Guess What I Am? – Hide and Seek Help kids when they show the need it or ask for it. Use it as a time to teach: patience problem solving social skills creativity Playing with kids builds a bond that will last forever. It lets the child know he or she is loved and appreciated. It opens the door for sharing problems and concerns when the need arises. It helps the parent get to know and under the uniqueness of each child. It is also great stress reducer for overworked parents. Family Activities are great for the whole family. They help develop strong family bonds which can last a lifetime. It can be said that a family who plays together stays together. They also are more cooperative, supportive and have open communication. These qualities pay off in big dividends by increasing self-esteem, social skills and a sense of connectedness that helps kids and teens use good judgment when confronted with difficulties and temptations. Family Game Night: Here’s a great tradition that is easy to start. Pick a night and make it family game night. Gradually add games that can be fun for the entire family. Take turns choosing the game to play. Make sure the games are appropriate for the youngest player. A great time to bond through friendly competition. Learn how to take turns and play fair. Learn how to be a good looser and well as a good winner. Encourage Outdoor Activities Now is the time to stop the “Couch Potato” syndrome. Pediatricians find that most kids are not getting enough exercise. Parents can be good role models by going outside and playing along with their kids. Hey, it is good for adults as well. Encourage your child to be active. Help them develop motor coordination and learn good sportsmanship."